We have already been together for a decade

We have already been together for a decade

Sorry that is way too long.

He genuinely is just a great man ( approximately i believe). He could be handsome, funny, spontaneous, we possess the interests that are same interests. We now have a 12 yr old (their action son) and a 2 year old. We’ve constantly mentioned being single mates and on a yearly basis together this has sensed by doing this.

Several times in past times we caught him on dating places, locate a bill or charge that is re-occurring the charge card for a niche site. We might talk about it and he would state he just did that because that is where the “better” porn had been. Up to couple of years ago we have constantly had a tremendously exciting and sex that is fun too. Maybe maybe not being truly a porn fan, but understanding he’s a person plus it appears each of them look it. We accepted their response, hesitantly. As time went on we never came across any such thing dubious so that it all appeared to disappear completely.

Well following the delivery of our two year old with my hormones, a child, a 10 yr old, a 50 hour week job. The intercourse went from 2-3 times per week to once per week. We knew it wasn’t the most effective for him but he never ever stated a term, acted unhappy, or ever tried for lots more. Therefore I “assumed” all had been well. We also talked to him once he said it was no big deal. Around this same time frame I found a receipt for a personal dating site about it and. We confronted him and said the exact same BS story (better porn) said he never contacted anybody, was in fact contacted or cared to. Continue reading We have already been together for a decade